Next to you, your next to me..

Friendship..

How long can it last, for a moment of time, years, decades or for eternity? Everytime I look at the sky, this question keeps appearing in my mind causing me to think back about my past. Why, it is related to my future or am I just being too tired? Hmm.. Its kinda hard. During those time, friends were so important to me cuz they were the ones who cheered me up, at times pestered me intentionally for dunno what reasons..or even walk side by side with me when Im feeling down to hear me out..

And when we feel alittle much better after a fight or stress, they'll still approach us to know whether we are really fine.. I can say that friendship is what we care for one another...Hmm.. Sometimes we even talk over the phone for several hours just to share our happiness, grieve and joy..That's the most blissful part of friendship.. Thus the relationship can last even longer. But what made it so complicated until it breaks apart? It is because of relationship, hate, busy or other reasons? I do agree if others say its about hate.. cuz when this bad emotion stars to control one's mind, any form of vicious act to fight back may affect the other party..Thus instead of friends, it becomes foe..

Hmm..Relationship? Well it depends..Some may prefer to be friends after a break up so that they can keep in contact with one another but there maybe certain flashbacks at one point of time whereby either one of them would think about thier past relationship.. What led them to break up and end up becoming friends.? As far as I know, being friends in a earlier stage can develop our trust even deeper..

But what if the other party is so busy with his/her daily life until there's no time for them to contact or even sms each other to check out whether if we're ok or are there any probs that can be shared? .. Well if we really declare oursleves friends,excluding bestfriends or casual friends, at least talk with them once in a while just to make sure that our friendship will not break apart.. Sometimes its complicated..Both will think that the other is busy and will not contact each other for a long time. And as time goes by.. it may result in hatred.. And I dont want this to happen.

All I can say is that even though we are far from sight and may not even meet each other in the future, at least give a sign of concern towards those whom we really regard as friends, bestfriends or others..GIve ourselves a chance to show care for one another by smsing, calling or even a small meet up jus so to tighten up friendship..

A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart, and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words." - Sent by Donna Roberts